TREAD SOFTLY O'ER
MY DARLING SON'S GRAVE
FOR A MOTHER'S LOVE
LIES HERE

PRIVATE JAMES TONAR

ROYAL SCOTS FUSILIERS

25TH OCTOBER 1918 AGE 20

BURIED: TERLINCTHUN BRITISH CEMETERY, WIMILLE, FRANCE


Among the 3,879 graves in Terlincthen British Cemetery, this personal inscription seems to have a special tenderness. The graves on either side of Tonar's have very conventional inscriptions: 'Deeply mourned by his loving father, mother, brothers & sisters R.I.P.' and 'Rest in peace', which serve to highlight the informality of Tonar's.
James Tonar's father, a railway carter in Leith, was still alive but his mother, who chose the inscription, privileges herself on their son's grave.
Tonar died in hospital in Terlincthen, a town near the ports where there were a number of base hospitals. The War Grave Commission's register says he died of disease, the Leith Roll of Honour is more specific - he died of pneumonia, quite possibly a complication influenza.